To the same pan, add cumin seeds. Saute, stirring, for about 30 seconds or until aromatic.
Add onions. Saute, stirring occasionally, for about 2-3 minutes or until browned.
Add garlic, ginger, and green chilies. Saute, stirring, for about 1 minute or until fragrant.
Add turmeric, red chili powder, black pepper, cumin, and coriander. Saute, stirring, for about 30 seconds or until aromatic.
Add tomato paste. Saute, stirring, for another 30 seconds.
Add coconut milk. Season with salt.
Stir to combine. Saute, stirring, for about 1 minute or until the sauce is slightly thick.
Return cooked okra back to pan. Add dried fenugreek leaves.
Stir to combine. Heat through.
Serve with rice or roti.